Thursday, March 5, 2009

love components

Have you ever thought you knew every thing about Love and you found out you did not?
well, I find my self going through a wonderful transformation; (text book)

when we talk about love it is important to have these three things: commitment , intimacy , and passion. I knew that they were important but didn't focus on these three elements in my own relationship.

I have been with the same woman for 30 years - a since of humor has been vital to our relationship. we have gotten through tough times and great times. knowing that no matter what we have each others back.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Love; what is it? I have heard so many different definitions of love, and often people say the same...love is caring...love is sacrifice...love is sharing your feelings and openness. I was watching a movie that was quite interesting; B rated, the actors where not very popular at all, but the movie as I watched pulled me in. This professor was doing research on intimacy and sex; what was surprising was the number of people who does not know the difference between the two, the movie made me think, even examine myself. know disrespect but do you know the difference between the two? thought I would share; oh! lets not forget, as one song writer said "whats love got to do with it", well you see, I believe love has to do every thing with it.
without love where would we be, and if I never come to know what intimacy is, my wife and I would not have made it 3 decades. Am I being a critic? maybe... I would love to see more of our TV commercials without sex and more of our TV and movies centered around intimacy.