Friday, February 6, 2009

family structure vs function

OK, I am going to just put this out there; as a Father of 3 adult children I thought I knew it all because my wife and kids sometimes tells me how swell I am a a dad and husband.

hey what's going on here? from now on the positive stokes will not work, we have functioned this way for years and I thought my father/husband hood was above average; I thought functioning was the structure so internally I am renewing my methods, the positive strokes for fixing my daughter's flat tier, the husband to-do list and my tools and extra money... the whole family is in trouble, and the only way they can get away with the slithering and conniving ways is I will have to be tied-up and put in the closet with a sock in my mouth.

Monday, February 2, 2009

This past week was verrrry unique, because our assignment took me out of my comfort zone a little; Persuading a stranger to commitment, I have been in a marrige for 30 years this year, and I try to suround myself with people of that same lifestyle and value-system. I dont know if the person I tried to persuade believed me.